January 2012
well…
here’s to avoiding the awkward - cheers to 2012!
December 2011
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2011
It’s been good to me, y’all. Probably one of the best years. I never thought that being in my 30s could be so fabulous.
This was the year my plus size fashion blog exploded with followers. (9,000 currently). It is featured on tumblr spotlight and I’m getting some really amazing opportunities because of it.
This was the year my art finally started to get some recognition....
(from an old story)
Wham bam 50 minutes of John and that’s that and he’s out the door. I’m in the room alone and I stay just a little longer to take it all in. I sit cross-legged on the edge of the bed, breathing slowly until I feel ready to deal with the outside world again. I grab the wad of cash and extinguish the candles and I go back to our room.
There you are asleep on...
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Peaches pandora station.
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Lessons about phone sex.
nudiemuse:
This is for one of my homies.
So I’m not really going to cover the technical aspects too much or promotion.
The actual work.
So I did phone sex off and on for quite a while.
The first most important thing is to not ever -ever- equate your personal soul with your phone sex persona even if you use the same name.
You will be you regardless of what you say to people on the phone,...
I cannot afford my rock and roll lifestyle.
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queenbeehoney replied to your post: Nye outfit inspiration board
dude, where are those leatherish leggings from? I’ve been on the hunt for some.
Those are marina rinaldi faux leather leggings from Saks, but they appear to be sold out.
There are these from ING Macys
These from ebay
These are pretty amazing - I am thinking of buying some
Jessican london did have some real leather panel...
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Crowdsourcing my next ink job
twodoxiesandtoomanyshoes:
I have way too many ideas!! I can’t even narrow down where I want this on my body, but I can tell you that I want my dogs tattoed. I already have both my cats done, might as well have the dogs done too.
The ideas that I had were along the lines of:
1. Full on black cameo sort of like this but with a wiener dog.
2. The other idea I had was to have a sort of medical...
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Nye outfit inspiration board
These earrings (or similar)
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Intersecting identities/aesthetics
jessiedress:
Femme daddy. This is something I say a lot lately to express my aesthetic ideals re my fashion.
This is also something that I find terribly hard to navigate as a fat femme who doesn’t wear pants. All the fat femme daddies I know wear pants.
I know how to be a dandy femme in a skirt, but that isn’t what I’m after.
Talk to me about the intersections of your identities/body/fashions...
My Top 5 Artists (Week Ending 2011-12-25) →
PUFF PUFF (6)
Cocteau Twins (6)
Blue Hawaii (4)
Glass Candy (3)
Labyrinth Ear (2)
Imported from Last.fm Tumblr by JoeLaz
You can’t even imagine the conniption i’m having over not being able to figure out my nye outfit/costume/GLAMOURNESS
It’s gonna be shiny, tight and fucking gay. I need ideas and i need to be able to turn it up/out in a day since i can’t shop for anything until i get paid on Friday.
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candleofthought:
When in doubt, err on the side of queso.
hallelujah!
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ATTN midwest sex workers!! Multiple Sex worker... →
One week. Two car trunks. Four women dead.
Detroit police may be on the hunt for a killer who might be targeting escorts after it was discovered that three of the four women found dead this month are linked to sex-related advertisements onBackpage.com, police said Monday.
The website includes dozens of come-hithers from metro Detroit escorts offering exotic fantasies and erotic playtime.
...
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I’m back at work today and I’m hoping it’s going to be quiet because I have exactly 1 million things to do - both personal and professional.
I’ve also got to order more art and I just can’t even deal with how expensive this stuff is. I’m broke and crabby about that. But at least I’m going to have a kick-ass art show in a few weeks! BUT Damn - I NEED...
I hadn’t eaten all day, so I just consumed a burrito the size of my head in about 15 minutes.
I AM A VERY HUNGRY PERSON, OK?
ETA it was from Carmen’s taqueria in UPTOWN :)
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Spotify playlist - ELEMENTAL: WATER →
I’m making playlists for all the elements. Here is the one for water. Merry Christmas!
In case it ever comes up, watching Girls Gone Wild spring break 2001 is hilarious, tragic and a TOTAL boner killer. Like worse than you can even imagine.
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A list of evidence of @BuckAngel putting down...
transcreature:
iragray:
Here he put someone down for being poor and insinuated it was some form of punishment since the OP doesn’t like that Buck is transmisogynistic or classist.
Here he posted a video of queer people of color as a token of his anti-racism?
[TW: CISSEXISM AND BODY SHAMING] Here is a screencap of a tweet he posted in response to someone who pointed out that his using...
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enjoli: wearing shoes that be talking: I want... →
frownheights:
I am not trying to stir back up the the leggings debate, UNIVERSE FORBID, but I am someone who sometimes wears leggings as pants and it is really comfortable, and I would like to increase my stable of leggings, especially to include like really thick durable almost pants black…
i highly recommend the HUE double knit leggings. Or of course you can always double up using two...
I just slept for 11 hours. Epic sleep for me. I think I’m feeling human again. So there’s that at least.
And now the migraine starts. God y’all. Today is just kicking my ass. Wtf? I wish I had someone to take care of me right now.
Just fuck everything right now. I mean. Thank god I got that amazing secret Santa gift or everything would be in shopping cart of fire. Work makes me crazy sometimes.
I am now going home to poop, cry, and take Advil. Probably simultaneously.
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WatchLetters to Cleo - Awake
“I wash my hands of you, I wash my dirty feet too”
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speaking of texas and being gay... →
This is such a good/sad coming out story.
I remember a similar time in my life - when i still felt like I was obligated to my parents, when I still thought that “home” was where I grew up, not where I lived. It’s a difficult time- even more so when you’re trying to come out/ find your identity and your parents are so against you doing that very thing you need to do. It...
Have you ever just seriously salivated just thinking about going down on a sex partner? like just practically (or literally) drooled?
I made another appointment with the dizzy doctor. I really hope this vertigo thing ain’t chronic. shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit.
i hope you straight grrls don’t mind when i hit on you because you got an uber dyke “dragon tattoo” haircut
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woke up with room-spinning vertigo this morning, which is odd, because I had just been talking about it last night. I really hate it. I did the techniques that supposedly fix it, but it just felt worse.
I’m really not feeling 100% today otherwise either, which sucks - because I have lots to do in the next few days. I might just come home and rest after work today. I haven’t done...
On Being Hard Femme #1 →
sexismandthecity:
For reading tomorrow
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again
mom: Is it ok to tell people about your fashion website?
me: Of course! Though, just to remind you that I do talk about being Queer there, so if that's something you're not willing to have a conversation about with your friends...you may want to think about that
mom: oh. So, um. Queer? Why not "Quirky" or "Weird"
me: I've told you about this a little before, but because queer is a word I use to describe my identity. Simply put it's a term to describe that I'm not picky about the gender of people I date* as you know. And queer plays into how I talk about fashion and my community. If you want, when we have more time, we can talk about it in more detail - there's a long conversation here and I only have 10 more minutes.
mom: oh ok, well I'd like that.
* I know this is way oversimplified, but texas mama needs simple.
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I was at topshop today buying a present for a secret santa thing…and i just couldn’t stop looking at the pretty make up colors.
I just really really want some dark rich lipstick, even though it gets on my crooked teeth and i eat it off in an hour or so.
Specifically Topshop’s Beguiled would be nice
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If you live in Chicago and have gone to Queer...
rolderik:
Hello, You are receiving this note as you are a member of the Queer Social Club Facebook group, and we feel you should be aware of events that occurred at December’s QSC on Wednesday, December 7, into Thursday morning, December 8. At approximately 12:30AM on Thursday morning, three men walked into Archie’s Bar during Queer Social Club to have some drinks. Upon realizing that...
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the family way →
God, even though I don’t want kids - Michelle Tea’s delightful telling of her queer take on trying to get pregnant makes me really fucking happy.
We’re making out in my bed and it feels really intense, like my soul is making out with her soul. But my soul has a secret! I can’t take it anymore. “I’m going to try to get pregnant in a couple weeks,” I blurt. Dashiell...
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eating zinc tablets all day has made my mouth taste awful. LORD JESUS. At least i feel fit as a fiddle.